The Sexpert – Tasty Tuesday
The Sexpert is back with advice on how to improve your sex life. Check out this week’s anonymous question…
Q. I can orgasm over and over with my boyfriend, but my husband barely gets me wet. I want to enjoy my husband sexually but I just can’t.
A. Sex and the pleasure derived from it can be just as much emotional as physical. I won’t even address the need for a boyfriend when you have a husband. Instead, isolate what it is that causes sex with your boyfriend to be more pleasurable. Is it the thought of getting caught, size, skill, lack of stress, etc.? Is it possible that the spark you have with your boyfriend simply isn’t present in your marriage? The body responds to so much more than sexual stimulation. So, before you can begin to enjoy your husband again, which I assume you once did, examine and identify the differences between the two relationships. Try a romantic getaway, porn, or even act out some fantasies. Open up the lines of communication and hopefully in the process you will begin to learn to enjoy sex with your mate. I hope that helps!
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