Ask the Sexpert: Tasty Tuesday
Q. My wife and I have been married for ten years. She is the love of my life, but I can’t stop cheating on her. I try to remain faithful, but I see her as the mother of my kids and not a sexual object. Help!
A. I definitely don’t condone the cheating. If you feel that you have to cheat then you should reevaluate your situation.
1. Does she know about the constant infidelity? If she does, this could be the cause of the lack of sparks between you two. Sex is very intimate for a woman. Imagine how she might feel about sharing her body with you when she knows you are unfaithful on a consistent basis. This can definitely put a strain on intimacy.
2. Have you two simply grown apart sexually and romantically? Try couples counseling. This will be a good arena to air out your feelings and dirty laundry.
Overall, try new things! Sex can get stale after people get into a routine. Plan a special date for her. Court her like you did in the beginning of your relationship. But most importantly, communicate your needs and desires. Tell your wife what she can do to turn you on. Always remember that you two must meet each other halfway. Be patient and stop cheating!
The Sexpert
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