Q. When my boyfriend stimulates my g-spot I tense up before I am able to orgasm because I am scared to pee on him. Is this normal?
A. The urge to pee is normal, as is the fear of doing so. Rest assured, you are not capable of peeing during orgasm. By tensing up, you are missing out on one of the most intense and pleasurable orgasms you can experience. So, next time he is close to that sweet spot; relax, breathe and ride the wave to the big O.
Good luck trying!
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Q. This may sound weird, but my girlfriend is into kinky types of sex that I don’t feel comfortable with. I want to please her, but I’m not willing to do some of the things she wants.
A. Talk to her. Mutual pleasure and communication are essential in a relationship. Find out what she desires, but listen with an open mind. I’m sure at first suggestion; you weren’t receptive to her needs. Find out what she desires that you DO feel comfortable with. You never know, you might actually be into bondage or threesomes or voyeurism. All I’m saying is open your mind. Don’t knock anything until you try it. Your sex life will thank you.
Ask yourself these questions before you move forward: How would you feel if she refused to please you? How would you feel if she was turned off by something that you derived pleasure from?
Happy sex!
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