Marriage Prospects For Black Women Aren’t As Bad As Bad As You Think

August 31, 2011 Love No Comments

Article Written by _YBF

Now for the hot-button question, how likely is it for an educated black woman to land an educated Black man? The study asked,

“Are there enough successful black men for the black women who want them?” The answer is somewhat elusive. In reality, if all 2,514,135 black women with a college degree wanted to marry a black man with a college degree, 830,797 would remain unmarried. In other words, only 1,683,338 black men in America today have a bachelor’s degree.”

And while that may be a deal-breaker for some, the study goes on to show (in a positive light) that if you define success by income, many men in the study made over six-figures without college degrees.

In fact, they found 10 occupations for black men who make six figures without a college degree. (Get your pads & pencils.) The top 5 are: (1) managers, (2) truck drivers, (3) police officers, (4) construction workers, and (5) bailiffs and correctional officers. So even if you don’t land a man with a degree, it don’t mean he won’t bring home the stacks.

Lastly, the study tackled some controversial subjects like, “All the good men are gay,” “The good ones marry white women,” and “Black women outnumber Black men 10:1.”

While the study didn’t have the data to account for how gay Black men affect marriage rates, they did find:

*Eighty-eight percent of all black men who are married are married to black women.

*Among married black men with a personal income of more than $100,000, 12 percent have a white wife, 83 percent have a black wife, and 5 percent have a wife who is neither black nor white.

*Among black men with college degrees, 10 percent have a white wife and 85 percent have black wives.

* Among black male professional athletes, 72.8% are married to black women, 22.2% are married to white women, and 5% are married to women who are neither black nor white.  (Somebody please pass this stat to Shaunie O’Neal so she can get a better cast of MARRIED characters on “Basketball Wives.”)

So there you have it. This study found that successful Black men are more likely to marry Black women.

And what about the ratio? The study looked specifically at the urban areas of Atlanta and Washington D.C. and found,

“The unmarried black female to black male ratio in Atlanta is 1.3-to-1. The unmarried black female to black male ratio in Washington is also 1.3-to-1. ”

All the number mights not be good, but MAYBE the picture of Black love in America isn’t as harsh as some people make it seem. Check out the full article here.

Your thoughts?  Speak on it….

http://theybf.com/2011/08/09/black-love-new-study-finds-that-marriage-prosepcts-for-black-women-arent-as-bad-as-most-t
**LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS BELOW**

Mean Shoe Game Pt. 3

August 31, 2011 Grae Events No Comments

It’s that time again.
When you start to realize that the summer is OVER…well you know what that means right?

Only 1 event to cap off the summer in NYC!

…” MEAN SHOE GAME -the 3rd PAIR ”

Date: Sunday Sept. 4th Labor Day Weekend

Place: Pranna: 79 Madison Ave. (at 28th st)

Ladies you were whimsical and sweet all summer, now it’s time to show your “MEAN” side.

Last year 900+ of NY’s MEANEST came out and set it off with us.
We only have 1 rule this year-
“beat the person’s shoes next to you”
(Jaws should drop when your shoe is seen)

We’re highlighting the MEANEST shoes with the ONLY photo shoot area made specifically for your shoes-
“The Shoe Box”.

Gentleman the same goes for you… It’s all about your hard bottom shoe game, the spotlight will be on you guys as well.
So from Cole Haan to Gucci, get those bad boys polished up.

By The Way… we’ll have OPEN BAR for an hour

Add 3 Floors and NYC’s Baddest DJ’s and you have the MEANEST event in town!

A LIL VIDEO FOR YA!!

TABLES ARE LITERALLY ALREADY SELLING OUT. WE SUGGEST GETTING A TABLE OR ELSE YOUR FEET WILL FEEL IT LOL

Dinner is also being served at 9pm… so come and celebrate your birthday with us!

RSVP AT INFO@GRAEENTERPRISES.COM

When Rules Don’t Apply: Tasty Tuesday

August 30, 2011 Love, Tasty Tuesdays No Comments

When Rules Don’t Apply: Real Life Response

Ayana and Kenrick find themselves faced with an interesting dilemma: their usual, just sex, 4 am relationship, has decided to take on a different spin. We talked about handling 4 am relationships in Part 1. But…what if none of the usual stigmas apply? Then what?

If you’ve managed to get yourself into an undefinable, un “timed – not 12 pm or 4 am” relationship. or, if like Ayana, you’re just not sure, these tips might be your best bet:

*Disclaimer: These are just my suggestions to dealing with issues when the normal rules don’t apply. Please read with a grain of salt. =o)*

1. Look at the clues that your…ahem…partner is giving you. If you only hear from them when it’s time to…um…”talk”…then it’s probably a 4 am relationship and they’re just not aware of the designated time to call for this. LOL.

2. Say you primarily hear from them when it’s time to “talk”, but then you all actually converse and the conversation is intense…then it might be time to ask him what time should you hear from them next, if you get my drift. No? Find out where you stand. Are they looking for more than just “talk”? Establish that, and then, once you’ve done that, refer back to the 1st Keeping it Real list. If they look at you like, “I thought you knew the deal”, then you just weren’t paying attention. LOL.

3. If the person is sending mixed signals, as often times is the reason that we find ourselves scratching our heads, trying to figure out the deal, then it’s still time to ask. When you ask, however, please know a. what you’re asking, and b. who you’re asking. If you don’t really know the person, then you really shouldn’t be asking any questions in the first place…that is, clearly this is a ’4 am’ er and you are reading more into it than necessary. If you do know the person, or you’re really just unsure, ask. Some people will say to ‘play your position’, but if you don’t know what your position is, that’s difficult to do, not to mention that sometimes, hard questions just need to be asked, point blank. Sometimes, the way that the person answers the question speaks volumes.

If none of these things apply, it’s time for you to examine your own self first before jumping into any of these relationship types. Sometimes, the confusion is solved by self-examination…

Twitter| http://twitter.com/#!/KayeMichele

Blog| http://strokeofprose.com/

* *  Leave Your Sexy Comments Below  * *

Question of the Day #77

Q.O.D.

WHAT’S WORSE: A LIE THAT BRINGS A SMILE OR THE TRUTH THAT BRINGS A TEAR?

** PLEASE LEAVE YOUR COMMENTS BELOW **

SALUTE! RED-WHITE-n-BLUE!

August 26, 2011 Fashion No Comments

“God Bless America…Land that I love….Stand Besides her…”  Ya’ll remember singing that as a kid etc…there’s nothing kid-like about this awesome footwear.  Mr. Christian Louboutin has done it ONCE AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!  #Dear MissAmerica these aren’t your mama’s shoes!

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN Miss America Lady Peep“  – 6″ peep-toe sling back

Notes: *Merci (thank you) Monsieur Louboutin, although your not American we SALUTE your artistic expression!!

Damage: $775 USD / www.christianlouboutin.com

This next coordinating pair you’ve probably seen it on Rapper Juelz Santana most recently and posted as his twitter profile pic…

Rapper Juelz Santana of THE DIPSET @thejuelzsantana & BIG S/O to @SLOWBUCKS_TV for the Poppin Tee!!

***for a @SLOWBUCKS_TV tee-shirt please go www.twitter.com/SLOWBUCKS_TV or www.shop.slowbucks.tv/products ***

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN SuperBall Mens/Womens

Notes:  He says “You could outrun any villain in these supheroesque sneakers. Create your own comic book story as you run through the streets in this glimmering limited edition style” – Christian Louboutin —> Um YEA HeBKNOWIN!!

Damage: (Womens) $595 USD / www.christianlouboutin.com

(Mens) $625 USD / www.christianlouboutin.com

DIVABOOs we Salute the RED, WHITE & BLUE……(oh yea Labor Day is coming soon…#justsayin always a good reason!)

KEEP UP WITH THE LATEST FROM DIVABOOSTYLESNYC:

Blog:  http://divaboostylesnyc.wordpress.com/

Twitter:  http://twitter.com/#!/DivaBooStyles AND  @TyNitty411

FB:  http://on.fb.me/fugKfS

Search This Site:

Subscribe to the GraeGram





Health & Wellness

Sweat the Vote Meal Challenge – Week 3

October 17, 2012

Chef Kim Parris aka the CaribDiva is back with this week’s Sweat the Vote Meal Challenge

Sweat the Vote – Meal challenge: Week 1

October 1, 2012

The Sweat the Vote challenge is underway. To make sure you stay on the track, Chef Kim Parris has joined the team to provide weekly meals that are low fat, low cost and low on prep time!

How to pave the road “down south” with sugar – Wellness Wednesday

September 26, 2012

Today’s Wellness Wednesday post offers advice to increase those “Tasty Tuesday” moments…

Thirsty Thursday – Calm Chamomile Banana smoothie

August 23, 2012

So far I’ve included a few “adult” beverages, but in honor of this Saturday’s SWEAT Party, I wanted to feature a more…healthy drink :)

GLOW – SWEAT Sweet 16 in the dark

August 12, 2012

The SWEAT Party is back with its 16th SWEAT Event – GLOW

Video of the week: Elle Varner – I Don’t Care

Recent Comments:

  • Vee: Thanks Brunel! Glad you enjoyed the article...
  • Brunel Trophies: Really enjoyed reading this article, keep up the good work!...
  • Vee: Thanks Alwina. It's refreshing to know and see other naturals in the corporate world. The issue is that our "elders" don't see that this is possible o...
  • Alwina: First, CONGRATULATIONS on receiving your masters! Second, no you should not be judged by your hairstyle for a position in corporate America. For my cu...
  • Vee: where's the like button when you need it :) Glad you liked it Neicy, although I knew you would :)...